Many older people have to give up driving in their later years. Going shopping is something most of us take for granted, but for a shut-in elder, it can be a great treat and studies are finding that shopping can actually be therapeutic!

When I was growing up back in the early 1960's, we lived just across the street from a sweet older lady that I called Grandma Pauline. She didn't drive and seldom got further than the sidewalk in front of her well-kept yard. She always had her groceries delivered. Back then, this was a common service provided by most grocers. My mother had just learned to drive herself, when she invited Grandma Pauline to go with her to the grocery store. Her eyes lit up and she immediately accepted.

I was a little surprised when Grandma Pauline got into the car. She looked like she was going to church. She was all dressed up in a lovely jersey dress and even was wearing her favorite pearls. Momma put her in the front seat so she could enjoy the three-mile drive to the local grocery store.

Once we were in the store, Grandma had to look at everything! I know it took a lot of patience on my mother's part - she was a speed shopper, if there ever was one. Grandma stopped at the bakery and bought a special coffee cake. She made her way down every isle and chatted to people who happened by. I'd never seen anyone enjoy grocery shopping as much a Grandma Pauline. It always amazed me that after two hours of shopping, all Grandma bought was a sack or two of groceries!

Momma continued taking Grandma Pauline shopping at least twice a month. Many times their trips would start with lunch at the local Mexican Food Restaurant. When the new McDonald's was built, Momma treated Grandma to her first Big Mac and fries. Grandma would talk about those shopping trips for days afterward.

Many towns and cities now have public transportation that helps older people get out, but I know that shopping is often only enjoyable when you're with someone you care about.

Do you know an elder who has trouble getting out? I learned in gerontology classes that elders who start having reclusive tendencies have really high morbidity rates.

I hope this encourages you to check in often with your elderly loved ones. While they may not need any material items, shopping can be a great way to get them out to just enjoy the drive, the freedom and your company.

What things do you do with your elder to get them out and about? We'd love to hear from you!

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